wedding rush

The children are getting married.   I love their  wives so much♥️.   Now I have two daughter in laws🎶. They are beautiful and so cute.   No wonder my sons wanted to marry them.   I believe that they will take care  of my sons for them to grow more mature  and live a peaceful happy life.   They are pure Japanese and the things which I lacked while growing my sons up they have .    My sons are called “half” here in japan.  
Meaning the mother or  father is a foreigner married  to a Japanese.  That is not easy for them. Even if they excel in many areas.  They stilll get the half treatment.   Meaning you are different from “us”

Sad to say that half also means that they are handsome, intelligent,  talented and all the possitive traits you can imagine equals their image in japan.  When we call a Mistizo or a mistiza in Filipino that means they are hibreed  mixture of blood and expectedly beautiful and handsome.
Japan  for decades do not open to the outside world.   That’s why they preserved their rich oriental culture.  Which is very magical to the western people.   
The birth of halfs in japan distributed to  their secret bridges to the international scene.  As these halfs have trilingual traits and double cultured from their parents.  

Meaning it gave japan a new generation of young people willing to  open to the international era.   They master either both or oneof their parents language and culture.

And can transfer the same to their peers or friends.   So that doesn’t need japan to  open in a speed they cannot cope up.  

As a mother to these children I have taught them how to love and respect the people they meet.  

Never to say anything  which will hurt people .  As a Filipino I was taught never to  say something which can break a person.  Honestly compliment someone with good words .  If we don’t like someone  we just have to shut our mouths and eyes.      

Never to look down  on someone.  But look for someone who will be your teacher for life.   

These are not difficult ideals for them as I lived as was taught to me.


It is in their hearts and an ideal which most people can to make these world  the heaven we all wish to be. 


For this is life and here is heaven . 
Alyne

Alyne Oohigashi

Filipina designer in japan Artist ceramic designer Illustrator

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